What exactly do girls look for in a guy? Part 1

1. Confidence
This is the number one weapon a guy can have when looking for the right girl or any girl for that matter. Girl's love a confident man and are naturally attracted to men who are sure about themselves. Men who are confident have a certain aura about them that naturally attracts females. Girl's want a guy that will take control of the situation without thinking twice. They want a guy that knows what he wants and how to get it.

Keep in mind their is a thin line between confidence and cockiness. While women do occasionally like a guy who is a little bit cocky, being overly cocky will not attract women but will instead drive them away.

2. Funny
Everyone loves to laugh and women especially love a man who can make them laugh. While women love a guy that is serious, they also want someone who has a good sense of humor. It has been proven time and time again throughout the history of relationships. Even a man who isn't that good looking can score a beautiful women if he knows how to make her laugh. Just look at David Spade for example.

Making a woman laugh is a key ingredient to a successful relationship. It is a great way to break the ice and get the conversation rolling as well. If you are ever having an awkward moment with a female, saying something funny is a great way to ease the situation.

3. Clean Cut
This tip is fairly obvious but extremely important at the same time. Women want a man that is clean, dresses nicely and smells good. If you are walking around in rags and smell like Madonna's bed sheets, women will not want to be around you. It is as simple as that. They want a guy who is clean shaven and looks like he takes care of himself.

How someone dresses and looks is a good indication of how they treat their everyday life. If someone is unclean and dressed in shaggy clothes, chances are their apartment looks the same way. If you don't have the time to stay clean chances are you don't have the time to keep anything else clean either. So simply take a shower, dress sharp and get the occasional haircut. It will go a long way with the females.

4. Driven
Being driven to accomplish your goals and dreams is one of the most important things to a woman. Women want a guy who knows where he is going and exactly how he is going to get there. They don't want a guy who doesn't have a plan for the future. They want someone who can accomplish goals and get from point A to point B successfully and economically. They especially don't want a guy who doesn't have any type of job.

So even if you don't have huge plans for the future, getting a job is a good start. You don't have to be "Mr. Business Man" but make sure you are working at something that will be bring you more positives in the near future. Women want a man that can at least pay his way and buy them flowers on occasion (on many occasion).

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