10 Biggest Turnoffs For Women

So you finally have found the perfect girl. The date goes well and things are looking positive. You can't wait for the second date to come and you call her to set it up but you get the answering machine. You leave her a message but it's been days and she still hasn't called you back.

Where did you go wrong? Were you the only one that felt you made a special connection that night. Maybe you fell victim to one of the 10 biggest turnoffs for women. If any of these fit you maybe it's time to change your ways.

#1 Biggest Turnoff - Too Nervous

You can't sit still and you keep looking away from her instead of making eye contact with her. Acting nervous is a big turnoff and makes a girl think you are hiding something. Make sure you are nice and relaxed during your date and try not to take your eyes off her. It lets her know that you are really into her.

#2 Biggest Turnoff - Too Aggressive

Be completely sure of things before you start holding her hand or trying to give her a massage. Anything physical to early can make you seem aggressive and therefore turnoff your dream girl very quickly. Wait until the time is right before you attempt any form of intimacy.

#3 Biggest Turnoff - Showoff

Just because your house was featured on Cribs or you own more cars than Jay Leno doesn't mean you need to divulge this information on the first date. Being a showboat is a complete turnoff to women especially on the first date.

#4 Biggest Turnoff - Salesman

You might be a great salesman at your job but there is a time and place for business and its not on your first date. Treating your first date like your negotiating a hostage situation will surely backfire.

#5 Biggest Turnoff - Pretend Bachelor

Be truthful about your status, even if you are married, separated or divorced. Telling her that your are single even though you are married will only lead to disaster in the long run. Being up front and honest about your relationship will prove to her that she can trust you.

#6 Biggest Turnoff - Distracted

Unless your Mom is having a heart attack and she's calling to ask you for a ride to the hospital, don't answer your cell phone on the first date. It will mess up the ebb and flow of the conversation which is very important. Focus on her and only her the whole time. Only leave the table once if totally necessary.

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